Meet Jillian C. Wilde

A Little About Me

In 2015 I heard a calling deep inside me, I knew my life was about to drastically change. Since I answered the call, it did. Here is a small snippet of my story. 

Since I was a young girl I have been drawn to all types of creative expression. Somewhere along my path I deviated from my heart’s true calling. I could feel myself closing down. Four years before I started the creation of the Award Winning Naked Heart Tarot (the first tarot deck I created). I was in a bad car accident. I had recurring premonitions weeks before it happened. I literally knew it was coming, I just didn’t expect it to happen, ironic, isn’t it.

My car accident injuries worsened over time. I was unable to do the active things I had previously enjoyed, unhappy and dealing with extreme anxiety, I had enough! So I prayed. I asked the Universe to “Please show me what I am meant to do for a living that would make me happy and help others”. I asked. I let go. I surrendered to the outcome. I connected to my passion. I studied spirituality, the human condition and spent time drawing. I got back to my roots. My art and interests merged. 

Unexpectedly this led me to the tarot. A dozen cards into drawing the Naked Heart and a few months in, my injuries went from bad to worse. I was on crutches, in pain and unable to use my left leg. No one knew what was wrong with me. I spent most days laying in bed drawing the cards. It quieted my mind. I showed a trusted friend the cards I was making. She said “Watch, you create this deck and by the time it is done, you will be healed”. Outwardly I laughed, inwardly I prayed she was right, and she was! By the time the last card was drawn, I was walking again. The creation of the Naked Heart Tarot was the beginning of a new path for me. 

During the time I was creating Naked Heart Tarot I was involved in a relationship that started off supportive and loving, and eventually led to be emotionally abusive. Unable to think clearly anymore, my confidence and self esteem shrivelled away. I knew I needed support, so I sought help. I healed deep wounds, sad parts, and uncovered family patterns. For the first time in my life, I am in a happy, loving, healthy relationship and I know who I am! I am both clear and a work in progress. I am Self led, and not led by my fears. I see life with clarity and trust in my path. Not all days are easy because life is still life and I am human, but days are much smoother, filled with more joy and love. This experience inspired the expansion of my work, Familiar’s Way Self Development Set, My coaching program and 1-on-1 work was developed. I want to continue to be of further service to others so they can truly thrive and feel connected. 


What I Offer

I work with people that want to experience deeper connections, more love and healthy relationships. Individuals who are curious and invested in knowing themselves more clearly, understanding their resisitance, needs and desires, and holding themselves accountable for the part they play in every interaction. Those who are want to invest in their dreams and make them a reality. You are dedicated to embarking on a transformative journey towards experiencing more love, and joy. You are committed to embracing the unfolding of this journey.


How I Work 

I'm a Mind-Body Coach & Internal Family Systems Informed Practitioner. I use a somatic and parts work approach to transformation. My goal when working together is to help tune you into your wants and dreams. To support you living authetically and in alignment with what you desire. Finding your magick and staying in alignment with that magick isn't always easy!

I help can help empower you with own internal information and wisdom and stay on track. The body holds the energy of the story the mind speaks. Old beliefs, stories, and patterns block and create resistance to creating deep and meaningful connections and from living in our purpose and attaining our dreams. Together we work so you become Self lead and empowered by your internal wisdom and confidence. We all have an internal Self, which mean we all have the power to transform. I am your Coach. You bring your magick. This process creates a deeper sense of confidence and safety that comes from within. Attract healthy love, move in flow towards your dreams because you deserve great things!

What I am not, is a Therapist. I do not diagnose, pathologize, treat or advise on mental health or physical conditions. Without judgement, my practice is not a quick fix, is not a treatment plan and I do not advise in any way shape or form. We work together to achieve your goals. If you choose to work with me, we will have an initial consultation to make sure we are the right fit. That's good news for both of us! Connection and safety create an important foundation for transformation! If we are not a good fit, no problem, or if you need a deeper level of support. I've got your back. I have a list of IFS Therapist referrals in which I am happy to provide.

I don't work in a fluffy way. I support those who are open to exploration and are committed to doing the work that leads to change. I practice the skills I Coach, with nearly 2000hours of Internal Family Systems I have applied to my own life through self-guided and therapeutic sessions. 

The work I practice is the work I Coach. I am happy to say, my life is filled with the things I most deeply desired.  A partnership filled with love, care, support and understanding. My little Familiar Pet who tests me all the time :) and a career I so deeply believe in, my skills, education are on-going and never done. These things are no longer a dream, they are my reality, and now there is even more room to dream bigger and live in joy! Do you dare to have the same? Together, let's discover your personal blueprint, and the gifts you hold.



Education & Therapeutic Modalities

Internal Family Systems, Online Circle, IFS Institute 

Internal Family Systems, Stepping Stones IFSCA —  a parts work therapeutic approach to help gain clarity, confidence, courage, creativity, and connection, (Don't just understand your resistance, transform it, so you can move forward).

Internal Families Systems, Integrative Somatic Parts Works, Frans Booth, Level 1, 2 & 3 

Five practices of Somatic Internal Family Systems Therapy:

  • Somatic Awareness
  • Conscious Breathing
  • Radical Resonance
  • Mindful Movement
  • Embodied Self

Compassionately getting to the heart of what you desire and transforming your resistance.

Somatic Attachment Certificate —a holistic, body-centered method to support relational wellness. 

Mind-Body Coach Certificate — somatic approach to achieving your desires and releasing resistance.

Relational Skills Trauma Informed Group Work Certificate — creating intimate relationships.  

*Coaching is distinct from counseling or therapy. If you require psychological or medical advice or support, it's essential to consult a qualified professional who specializes in addressing your specific needs and circumstances.